
They say there is a lid for every pot...I don't know who exactly came up with this corny phrase, but I heard it more than a few times during my dating career. "You never know when she is going to walk into your life," "It's when you least expect it..." "You can't plan love..." yada yada yada. After meeting Mitzi, I have to agree with all this mumbo jumbo. I never imagined that I would meet and fall for such an incredible woman who shares my dreams, loves me unconditionally, and tolerates my overly aggressive desire to be neat and organized. But even if I never met my Southern Belle (and my life was once again hollow g-d forbid), Sunday was proof that there is someone for everyone. Richie is my cousin Ron's best friend and without a doubt, one of the sweetest people I know. A big laugh, a big hug, a bad joke....he always leaves you with a smile on your face. He has been through tremendous obstacles and yet always kept his sunny disposition, priding himself in being a good man and a good dad. I remember after his wife passed, we talked about the trials and tribulations of dating. I thought to myself "I hope this guy finds the woman he is looking for." Admittedly, I was not all that optimistic. Little did I know, that the woman he was looking for had been a dear friend of mine for over 10 years.
Much like Richie, Adrienne had her share of heartbreak, but it never squashed her determination to find the perfect mate. I remember going with her to one of those treacherous meat market type single events in the city....not exactly my cup of tea...but she greeted the event with exuberance and tenacity, meeting as many people as she could, leaving smiling faces in her path. Her warmth and caring demeanor are both illustrated in the tremendous number of friendships she has made over the years.....many of which have lasted decades.
Two people from two completely different places and then by chance, they found each other through Richie's cousin (I wish I could have taken credit, but truth be told, the thought never crossed my mind.) They have been inseparable ever since. Even while they sold one house, redecorated another and started to prepare for a bar mitzvah, they are still smiling. (I am exhausted just thinking about it.) Saturday, they made it official becoming husband and wife, and Sunday, they hosted two big parties at the home they now share....seriously, do these people ever sleep? And why are they so damn happy? I guess they are in love.
Mitzi likes to use the word "beshert" or chosen one when describing us. I think the same holds true here. I am glad that Richie has found a second beshert in his life and I am thrilled that Adrienne has found a man who will treat her with the love and respect she deserves. We are so happy for you. Mazel Tov!

